I’m not too proud to post this entry. Yesterday, my friend Shaayla and Auntie Pauline came over to our house for a playdate. I’ve been waiting to play with Shaayla again since we last met and got very excited when Mamma told me she’s coming over. I made sure I took my nap early as I was supposed to wake up before 3:30pm but I’ve always loved to sleep longer and laze around on the bed first so I got a little cranky when Mamma woke me up.
At 4pm, the bell rings and I excitedly went to open the door. There was Shaayla a little wet from the rain but she had her raincoat on. While my parents and Auntie Pauline were talking about Disney On Ice and Disneyland.. suddenly out of the blue they heard me saying.. Shaayla is stupid! Mamma got a shock but she wasn’t quite sure whether she had heard me correctly so she asked me to repeat it again .. I said the S word again. Sure enough Mamma got upset and pulled me aside. She explained to me that it’s wrong for me to use that word on Shaayla.. it’s not a nice thing to do and Shaayla will feel hurt if I say it to her. Mamma made sure that I apologize to Shaayla .. I said sorry. it was my first time using that word and my parents aren’t sure where I picked it up from .. they guess it must be from tv.
We forgot about that incident quickly and played with the toys. There were a few other embarassing incidents after that .. I really didn’t know what got into me yesterday coz I normally do share my toys. I cried when Shaayla played with my princess lights.. she was so nice and actually give in to me in exchange for the Mickey Mouse lights I was holding.

I cried again when Shaayla put on The Incredibles superpower wrist band eventhough Mamma said Shaayla will only play with it for awhile, she also has the same thing at home and will not bring it back. Then when we were playing with balloons, I wanted the yellow balloon she was playing with eventhough I already have another balloon. Offcourse mine wasn’t yellow. Through out all this Mamma kept telling me that if I don’t learn to share and take turns my friends won’t want to play with me anymore.

When it was time for Shaayla to go, Mamma asked me which of my animal stick puppet would I like to give to Shaayla.. I chose the tiger for her and Shaayla was so happy when I gave it to her. But once she was about to get out of the door, I started crying coz I wanted the tiger puppet back. This time no one give in to me but Mamma said she will make me a new stick puppet.
So anyone else want a playdate with me ?
12 Responses
Afzalmom
26|Feb|2007 1Hi Alya
I remembered during Afzal second birthday, he couldn’t share anything with anyone. He got into angry fits if anyone touches his toy, his presents, his anything, that his second birthday onwards became the “I, me and mine” syndrome. You’ll get passed it but without some drama with your mama.:)
ajab booboo
26|Feb|2007 2U’oh …. looks like you did a …. errr … booboo there when you called your friend ’stupid’, Alya. Hope you learnt your lesson. Care and share is a difficult thing for us toddlers to do, eh? I know … I would have reacted the same way too. Even now with Momo, whenever Daddy let him play with my toys, I tend to snatch it away from his grubby hands.
supernunu
26|Feb|2007 3i can turn into a little monster too when it comes to sharing toys (or whatever my belongings) too. I hope this will be a lesson to me, must always be nice to our friends.
Err, alya, with all your cool toys, I WANT to be your playdate. You can call me anything, hehe
Sonia
27|Feb|2007 4hey alya,
sounds like you had a ‘diva’ day eh? happens to most of us but remember that the ’s’ word is out of bounds. by the way, i have a similar mickey light too, got it when we went to the ice show. very pretty lights!
Sonia
27|Feb|2007 5hey alya,
sounds like you had a ‘diva’ day eh? happens to most of us but remember that the ’s’ word is out of bounds. i have a similar mickey light too, got it when we went to the ice show. by the way, i’ll be your play pal anytime mate!
Auntie Ely
27|Feb|2007 6i wanna play with u!
khalidah
27|Feb|2007 7tsk tsk tsk…not a good day there, alya? you musn’t pick up everything you see and hear on tv ok? *yup the ’s’ word is bad, and thank goodness it wasn’t anything more vulgar/obscene *wince**
other than that you seem to play well with other kids. is this the stage after parallel play? because i notice Ilhan plays alongside his friends at the playgroup, but not exactly with them, you know what i mean?
i’m sure Shaayla understands your crankiness on that day (we are all girl/women after all! :)) and i’m sure you’ll have a fantastic time the next time round
eili
27|Feb|2007 8oh oh…u say what? I can’t imagine what kind of punishment i’ll get if i were to say that word. Anyway, my hand come faster than my mouth meaning i tends to shove or give whoever-want-to-share-my-toy-person a smack on their hand whenever i refuse to share.
Bad? yah, but sharing is still tough for us to digest right?
eili
27|Feb|2007 9oh oh…u say what? I can’t imagine what kind of punishment i’ll get if i were to say that word. Anyway, my hand come faster than my mouth meaning i tends to shove or give whoever-want-to-share-my-toy-person a smack on their hand whenever i refuse to share.
Bad? yah, but sharing is still tough for us to digest right? So pal, you are not alone.
Poji
01|Mar|2007 10alya so bad say like that … must punish alya … hehehe
Alya
03|Mar|2007 11Sorry for the late reply folks..
Aunty Maria, *sigh* I’m sure there’s gonna be lots more drama to come.. it’s definitely not easy for us to learn to share at this age. When I cycle to the playground, I will keep a watchful eye on my trike and whenever I think a kid approaches my trike I will immediately runs towards it,
Ajab, yes it was a big booboo .. lucky for me my friend doesn’t know what that word means yet otherwise she would have been really hurt. Still it’s not a nice thing to say and I have to watch my words from now on.
Nunu, if you’re nice to me you can play with all my toys .. I won’t call you names I promise!!
Sonia, it was one of those days we divas sure to have our diva moments right? I said the s word again like a song a few days ago and got a big big scolding.
Auntie Ely, we should arrange a playdate soon huh .. you & me or just me & suraya ?
Auntie Khalidah, we tend to play more with each other now like hide and seek but no ondok-ondok yet. We still do parallel play sometimes.
Ooooh you scare me eili .. wah like that I don’t think I dare play with you sekali kena smack on my head. Wonder what word will come out from my mouth if you ever smack my head ehh .. hmmmm
Punish .. like corporal punishment is it Abang pOJI !!?? UWAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ..
eili
15|Mar|2007 12hehehe…mayb u will say kepala kau?? sounds crude to me..
ai ya..i will show action only lah. I will only sayang u…
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